Why I'm almost never on Facebook....

A lot of people will make comments when I say that I dislike facebook, most common I hear these two 'how do you stay connected to people?' 'why don't you like facebook?'

1) I stay connected to people by actually talking to them, or texting. Although, I'm not the best at keeping in contact with people. If I want to talk to someone, or if they want to talk to me they know how to contact me.

2) One of the biggest reasons I dislike the site is people just fight so much! Maybe I see this alot because I have friends that will post things that if it can be taken controversially, it will be. Plus Husband can be a little bit of a troll, and will go looking for trouble sometimes.
This is the crux as to why I hate it so much, it's all pointless! Seriously! People get so bent out of shape trying to make people on facebook change their mind, it's never going to work! Even trying to have a healthy discussion with someone who disagrees with you turns into a fight.

All that will come of it is frustration, and there is no constructive way to get rid of those feelings, and the people closest to you aren't the ones that need to suffer from your temper over these things.


I suppose I get more frustrated than most because I see Husband get so frustrated that people don't listen to him, especially if he is right, now in person things go much better, but online I can just see him getting more and more frustrated until I finally 'ground' him from the internet to get him away from all the negativity.


So there you have it, my little mini rant about how I hate facebook.

Nothing really nice to say, but nice to get off my chest

I have been dealing with a lot of anger lately, and some days I would even say rage about things that are going on in my life. The way people are treating each other, my in-laws still sticking their noses up in the air and ignoring my attempts at even being polite. (not all of them thankfully) People yelling about politics more than normal calling each other wrong without even trying to talk about it.
Speaking of politics, I just want to line up all the democrats and republicans (and even the president) and just take a switch to their backsides, just 3 swats each and tell them that if they are going to argue and bicker like children they will be treated like children, given their punishment and sent to bed without supper to think about how they are treating the American people because they are to f-ing stubborn to even be civil to each other. UGH!
I am also just failing in talking to people without getting riled up and angry about things. Thankfully none of this has happened at work. Although if I get another call from the 'private caller' asking me if I've ever been to a bachelorette party I'm going to want to just hang up on him since it's not possible to slap him over the phone -yet-
Just GRR! It's probably a good thing I'm not allowed to carry around a switch, a very good thing.